Same here, REALLY needed this today. I'm on what seems like the longest imaginable journey to learn to love myself. It's tough as hell. Every bit of encouragement helps. It's so much easier for me to love others unconditionally, but I hate myself (way less than I used to though). THANKS.
I only subscribed to your daily emails yesterday, partly because your name is Taryn and my name is Faryn and I'm gay and you are too and I thought the parallel was pretty cool. (Maybe a little narcissistic of me, right?) but also because I LOVED what I'd seen of your writing.
I just wanted to let you know that the email I got from the daily Taryn this afternoon was really something I needed and I totally didn't even realise it. I've been in quarantine since October 16th, completely by myself after 2 people in my house tested positive for the virus within 2 weeks of each other. We've all been isolating separately, and I haven't been able to go to work or leave the house. I kind of forgot what it's like to be buddies with myself; sometimes I'm pretty good at it, but sometimes I'm sick of my own shit, which doesn't mix well with being stuck with myself.
So thank you. I forgot to try and like myself until I read your letter. I'm looking forward to the next one. :)
I never knew what I like or what my preferences were because i was that selfless person who acts to please others. Since quarantine started i got to know myself, what i want and what it’s like to hang with me. I am fun tho i finally know my worth. Thanks for ur words such an inspiration ♥️
This is such a masterpiece !! Over lockdown I’ve loved spending time myself more and more. Before all this, I felt like I ALWAYS needed to have plans every free minute I had, but me time is so good and important. You have hit the nail on the head with this one! Thank you 🙏
I’ve been waiting, probably weeks / months, to message you just to tell you that I think you’re incredibly talented, and wise, and helpful, and raw, and inspiring. I’m also a writer. Except I only write to myself, and it’s because I wait for things to be perfect before I show anyone. I realized that’s why I hadn’t messaged you yet, as if you were this super human who I couldn’t possibly send a message to until it was absolutely perfect. I’m working on not trying to find perfection in everything I do because, as I’m sure you know, it just sets you up for failure before you’ve even tried. So, thank you for the content that you do put out. I signed up for your emails and I love reading the way you write. I’ve had writers block for a year now (ever since my grandmother passed away) and it’s been hard for me to find anything that sparks a fire in me to write again. - but you have. And I just want you to know that. I also really appreciated the podcast you and Cammie did talking about being Gay / Christian. I came out almost two years ago and it was great to hear something I could relate to on so many different levels as far as the struggles you end up facing. Even now. Believing in God, having that relationship, and having others discount it because you’re gay is tough. I’m rambling at this point. But again, thank you. I appreciate you and I look forward to seeing you continue to do great things. 🤗
Hey Taryn, just came across this (was listening to uneducated) and it's totally awesome. Thanks for sharing and please keep doing what you do :) A random question that I wanted to ask --nearly a month after you wrote this but maybe you'll see it-- your writing gives of "stream of consciousness" vibes, do you free-write this, or go through drafts/edits?
I'm excited to keep reading. thanks again, and happy Thursday :)
This has to be my favourite post to date! Yes Taryn! I could not resonate with the idea of being who I need more, than today. I was my own hero in the face of adversity, rejection and close-mindedness from a very close source. Yet instead of shying away from it I stood my ground, validated myself and my views and instantly felt better for it. Empowered, invulnerable and more happy than I've ever been. So here's a shout out to you Taryn, for speaking a higher truth and spreading that positivity and belief and confidence in relying on oneself. I did it, I dared myself to be who I needed to be... and came out better for it. <3
Yo this blog is so cool and it’s so wholesome seeing a community come together like this. Go you for creating this space!
Also, couldn’t agree more with what you wrote. Me time is my favourite time, and since masks have become a thing I feel like i have even more me time available. I make myself laugh on public transit, sing along to my music and no one has a clue. There’s something so sneaky and cheeky and satisfying about people not knowing that you’re having a grand old time next to them. Woot woot
Thank you! I really needed to hear this today! I appreciate you.
Same here, REALLY needed this today. I'm on what seems like the longest imaginable journey to learn to love myself. It's tough as hell. Every bit of encouragement helps. It's so much easier for me to love others unconditionally, but I hate myself (way less than I used to though). THANKS.
Hey Taryn,
I only subscribed to your daily emails yesterday, partly because your name is Taryn and my name is Faryn and I'm gay and you are too and I thought the parallel was pretty cool. (Maybe a little narcissistic of me, right?) but also because I LOVED what I'd seen of your writing.
I just wanted to let you know that the email I got from the daily Taryn this afternoon was really something I needed and I totally didn't even realise it. I've been in quarantine since October 16th, completely by myself after 2 people in my house tested positive for the virus within 2 weeks of each other. We've all been isolating separately, and I haven't been able to go to work or leave the house. I kind of forgot what it's like to be buddies with myself; sometimes I'm pretty good at it, but sometimes I'm sick of my own shit, which doesn't mix well with being stuck with myself.
So thank you. I forgot to try and like myself until I read your letter. I'm looking forward to the next one. :)
I never knew what I like or what my preferences were because i was that selfless person who acts to please others. Since quarantine started i got to know myself, what i want and what it’s like to hang with me. I am fun tho i finally know my worth. Thanks for ur words such an inspiration ♥️
This is so true! If we can’t hang out and vibe with ourselves are we even living? lol
This is such a masterpiece !! Over lockdown I’ve loved spending time myself more and more. Before all this, I felt like I ALWAYS needed to have plans every free minute I had, but me time is so good and important. You have hit the nail on the head with this one! Thank you 🙏
This is the first time I’ve ever read anything you wrote. (Sorry). It’s amazing! So well written that it hits the heart. Thank you
Thank you for sharing this. I’m a student in quarantine, but I need to be who I need today! Thanks again:)
Absolutely love the way you write!!!
Here's to having the best best day with yourself! Written beautifully as always :) Love from Ireland <3
I’ve been waiting, probably weeks / months, to message you just to tell you that I think you’re incredibly talented, and wise, and helpful, and raw, and inspiring. I’m also a writer. Except I only write to myself, and it’s because I wait for things to be perfect before I show anyone. I realized that’s why I hadn’t messaged you yet, as if you were this super human who I couldn’t possibly send a message to until it was absolutely perfect. I’m working on not trying to find perfection in everything I do because, as I’m sure you know, it just sets you up for failure before you’ve even tried. So, thank you for the content that you do put out. I signed up for your emails and I love reading the way you write. I’ve had writers block for a year now (ever since my grandmother passed away) and it’s been hard for me to find anything that sparks a fire in me to write again. - but you have. And I just want you to know that. I also really appreciated the podcast you and Cammie did talking about being Gay / Christian. I came out almost two years ago and it was great to hear something I could relate to on so many different levels as far as the struggles you end up facing. Even now. Believing in God, having that relationship, and having others discount it because you’re gay is tough. I’m rambling at this point. But again, thank you. I appreciate you and I look forward to seeing you continue to do great things. 🤗
Oooo you got called out is the cherry on top for me 😂👏🏽 You’re so funny dude. I for real needed to read this right now. Thank you so much!
Hey Taryn, just came across this (was listening to uneducated) and it's totally awesome. Thanks for sharing and please keep doing what you do :) A random question that I wanted to ask --nearly a month after you wrote this but maybe you'll see it-- your writing gives of "stream of consciousness" vibes, do you free-write this, or go through drafts/edits?
I'm excited to keep reading. thanks again, and happy Thursday :)
This has to be my favourite post to date! Yes Taryn! I could not resonate with the idea of being who I need more, than today. I was my own hero in the face of adversity, rejection and close-mindedness from a very close source. Yet instead of shying away from it I stood my ground, validated myself and my views and instantly felt better for it. Empowered, invulnerable and more happy than I've ever been. So here's a shout out to you Taryn, for speaking a higher truth and spreading that positivity and belief and confidence in relying on oneself. I did it, I dared myself to be who I needed to be... and came out better for it. <3
Yo this blog is so cool and it’s so wholesome seeing a community come together like this. Go you for creating this space!
Also, couldn’t agree more with what you wrote. Me time is my favourite time, and since masks have become a thing I feel like i have even more me time available. I make myself laugh on public transit, sing along to my music and no one has a clue. There’s something so sneaky and cheeky and satisfying about people not knowing that you’re having a grand old time next to them. Woot woot