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But how? You know? Like when everything feels constant and mundane and same old same old and boring but easy and comfortable...how do you break it? I know the answer is 'You just do. You break it and do something different.' But then I'd respond...okay, but what? What do I do differently when everything feels constant and boring, but breaking out of that feels scary and overwhelming and hard? K now I'm using this comment section as my own personal journal, but I'd be genuinely curious to know the ways in which you plan to mix it all up a bit. Maybe it'll give me some ideas. Or inspiration. Or encouragement that if someone else can do it, I can too. Or something. Thanks friend.

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I think that’s the point? it’s scary, overwhelming and hard. and for me, i’ve found the best part is getting through those hard parts not even what’s rlly on the other side. to wake up and say, yeah I really don’t want to freaking do that but I need to do that. And then one day, you get to say to yourself, wow look at us go…we just did all those really hard things. idk if that makes any real sense but just came out lol.

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It made perfect, beautiful sense and also this part "And then one day, you get to say to yourself, wow look at us go…we just did all those really hard things." made me tear up at the possibility that someday that could be me but also your use of "us" and "we" made me feel so...not alone in it all. so thanks pal. Appreciate it. 💜

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